Actively
involving yourself in your child’s learning at school and or at home will
show the school as well as the kids, that parents value education. It does not
only affect your child's learning but also helps your child to develop
self-esteem, social skills, good behavior, and healthy ways to enjoy their free
time.
There are many ways parents can help
children and their schools.
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BECOMING INVOLVED IN HOME EDUCATION
Homework: Spending
time on academic work at home improves your child’s achievement.
Reviewing his/her homework and discussing what they have learned on a
regular basis will give you an idea how they are doing in school.
Schedule daily homework time; provide an appropriate place to study where
there is no TV and loud music. Provide assistance when needed. Discourage phone
calls during work time. Encourage your child to put effort into completing
homework. Go over homework, check if it is completed and ask questions about it.
Help his/her learning: Parents
play a very important role in effecting their child's confidence and motivation
to become a successful learner. Show you have confidence in your child’s
abilities. Help your child improve his/her weaknesses and do better on his/her
particular strengths. Help them to set goals that are challenging but
achievable. Challenges keep children interested; goals that are achievable
motivate them for new goals.
Encourage
your child's curiosity to learn. Reinforce your child's learning by joining in
various activities such as going to the library, museum, free concerts, visiting
children’s theatres, farms, exhibitions and cultural fairs together or reading
and discussing books with your child, writing poems, watching and discussing
television programs.
Encourage
your child to participate in school and outside extracurricular activities.
These are good opportunities to enrich your child's life. With these activities
children will strengthen their self-confidence and widen their interests.
Learn your child's
learning style: If
you understand how your child learns better, it will be easier for you to help
her/him. To learn your child's learning style, you may observe your child or
talk to your child's teacher to get information whether he/she works better
alone or with someone else. Other things you may want to observe or discuss with
the teacher: Does your child learn things best when he/she can see them? Does
your child learn things best when he/she can hear them? Does your child
understand some things best when he/she can touch or move them?
Use
TV wisely:
Limit TV watching. View, select and watch TV programs together and talk together
about them. Encourage them to watch educational programs. Some television
programs can increase children’s interest in learning.
Read
to your child: Reading
to your child is very important. Read with your child and let them see you read.
Studies show that children, whose parents read to their children or listen to
them on a regular basis, perform better in school. Take your child to the
library or if they are old enough, encourage them to go to the library. Finding
books on their interests and hobbies will make them love reading more.
Talk to your child: At
each age level, especially with teenagers, parents should have good
communication and talk to their kids regularly. By talking, parents and children
learn about each other. Listen to your child’s stories about his school life
and friends. Talk to your child
about his/her interests. Know your child’s friends and the interests your
child and his friends have in common. Ask his/her thoughts about specific
subjects and discuss them.
Talk about your values with your child. Emphasize the importance of values
and personality such as respect for self and others, self-reliance, honesty,
hard work and responsibility. Show your values by your actions. Tell them how
important a role model they may be for their siblings and the younger kids in
their school.
If
your child has any school - related problem, contact your child's teacher, the
school counsel or principal.
Have
family routines and set rules:
Having routines such as time for doing homework, doing chores, eating meals
together, and going to bed at a certain time will help your kid plan his/her day
and be organized. Also routines like sharing and discussing daily events every
day is important. This will give you a chance to know what is going on in your
child's life and what his thoughts are about certain events, subjects, and
people.
Set
rules and expect your kids to obey them. It
is important to know where your teen is spending his time, who his/her friends
are and how long he/she is going to be outside. Keep your child in family
activities, they will enjoy being with family and this will always keep your
teen connected with family.
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IN THE SCHOOL
Attend
school events: Attend
parents organization meetings. Attend the school’s open houses, student
exhibitions, concerts and other school events. Get to know the teachers and
other school staff. Listen to their plans, what they hope to accomplish with
their students, and why they choose these goals.
Attend
parent-teacher interviews:
Studies show
parents who are interested and get information about their children's progress
regularly help kids to improve in school.
Keep
yourself informed of what your child is learning, what their assignments are,
and how your child is doing by attending parent-teacher interviews. If you
cannot find time, schedule a phone call. Don't wait until there is a problem.
Volunteer:
Volunteering
in your child’s school is another way you can be involved in education. Even minor participation can be very helpful. There are
many ways you can help in school.